Bongvul Pbopul - Passing of Blessings
"Mun ouy laing leah, mun ouy prort preah."
"Do not separate, do not part ways."
In this ceremony, currently married couples are asked to gather in a circle around the bride and groom. Three candles
are lit and handed from person to person. Each participant passes his or her right hand over it in a sweeping motion towards the couple, sending or throwing a silent blessing to them. Only married couples are asked to participate, as it is believed
that they will pass along the special quality or essence which has preserved their
union. The candles are passed around the circle clockwise seven times to complete the ceremony.
Sompeas Ptem - Knot Tying Ceremony
Khmer weddings traditionally have a knot tying ceremony, but unlike what the name implies, it is the guests who tie the knots, not the bride and groom.
Close family and friends are invited to come forward to bring their best wishes and blessings to the new couple by individually tying ribbons around
each of their wrists. These knots are tied on both the bride and groom, who were
traditionally required to wear them for three days afterwards to preserve the good luck.
This ceremony has customarily been considered an ideal opportunity to take a picture of each guest in
attendance with the new couple.
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